This is regarding manners and it is something that happens in my family, Curt's family, and some of my friend's families. Now we are talking about family (parents & siblings)not cousins, or distant relatives.
How do you share news?
I recently got a letter from my brother and he let us know that his wife was pregnant. Now, I think this is okay, because he is in charge of the family reunion this year and was going to write us anyway. He really didn't have to call each of us.
However, when a child is born, is it really okay to just tell for example, "Grand-Mom" and have her call everyone? Wouldn't they rather get the information from the one who just had the baby or the father who helped?
I think that I could share this with friends by sending out an email, but not family. Maybe pictures and backup information, but it should be told to family over the phone first. Engagements, also require a phone call.
I really don't like the gossip scheme. Gossip is bad, and the only person I tell/share with is Curtis. If I have had a "gossipy" conversation with someone, it usually stops with me. I think that is why I don't talk that much in certain groups of friends.
Anyway, however you vote, Remember that "Manners Matter"!
This is all my own thinking on the matter, share yours!